Hi mattlee,
sorry to hear about that your friend is just suffering from a case of magical mediocrity.
As information gets easier to access, magic naturally gets more air time.
So what makes your ACR routine different from that video of ACR your friend saw on youtube ?
It is precisely the Magi that brings out the magic in everything.
Here's a lil excerpt from an essay by Eugene Berger.
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Magic tricks by themselves are just tricks.Magic is what you are going to do from there on. I can do a trick for you and the response that it generates in you is "what a jerk this guy is," because perhaps the whole premise of my presentation is, "I know something that you don't know." That is kind of irritating. Who wants to be around that kind of person for very long? A person who knows things that I don't know and then rubs my nose in it. Very unpleasant.
It seems to me the same magic trick that generates that kind of response can generate a very different kind of response. Why is that? Part of it is people watch magic with two minds. The aim of a magician, if he or she is a good magician, is to upgrade one and downgrade the other. It is to get you out of the analytical frame of mind so that you are able to experience this amazing effect. If I'm a good magician, by my definition, I am trying to get you to suspend your analytic frame of mind. Not for ever and ever, because you need that mind, for instance, when you cross the street, when you sign up for classes, when you take final exams, and so on. It's not a matter of your getting rid of something, rather it's about seeing that the human psyche is more than simply rationality.
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http://www.magicbeard.com/view.php?id=29