HI!

As embarrassing as this is, i am actually thinking of using magic to well...attract this girl you know. :wub:

But i'm not so sure how to present myself.

Do i go straight up to her and say do you want to see magic or do some cool stuff till she notices me?

THanks!

-bLu

(Feel so embarrassed that i like a girl!)

Use your personality.

Magic is not for dating girls.

Yes, i agree that you should use your personality to win her heart.

However, if i am not wrong, you are primary 6 this year right? Magic would probably be able to help gaining lots of attention during your age. So why not just go try!

Never try, and you never know. If you try but if you were to fail, you have at least learn something. =)

Win her friends attention, eventually they will tell good things about you ;)

OH for the love of God... we've all been through this discussion before:

http://forums.singaporemagiccircle.com/ind...showtopic=12155

Since you wrote it in the description that you are too young, I'm not sure whether should we help you in this.

You know... already your parents are already quite against you playing with cards which you'd mentioned on a number of occassions, I might think the idea of you wanting to get gals is even more questionable in their eyes. :P

But of course, since we are in the forum to help, maybe here are a few things you can think of...

Magic can HELP IN getting the gals' attention. But it CANNOT, in and of itself, GET you the gal. I think this is pretty much what most of us here agree upon.

If you really want to use magic, then IMO, the "let-her-notice-you" approach is better. But of course, she may just happen to be the 1 % magic-haters in the world, in which case, you better have some other talent on standby.

The truth is, we don't know you nor the gal enough to give you any practical help.

Its ok Blue, I think at your age now you are going through a transition phase of a boy to man. Its normal for your heart to race when you see an attrative girl.

I think for most of us here, we are able to understand what kind of impact will magic have on the girls at our age if we were to show magic to impress. Reason being the girls that we are after are around our age, in a sense more grown up girl.

The reply you have seen are very good advises, those are in fact the best advises you can find out there since they are already tested and proven by them ( I think?). Hence you can use them as references. Just take note, what work for girls at our age may not work for girls at you age.

All the best!

One more thing i just saw regarding your last sentence. There is actually nothing to be embarrassed about liking a girl! Instead, you should be happy that you have found someone u like/admire! And you should only be embarrass if you are liking a guy! Haha!

p.s. No offence to anyone(g*y) if there is any in this forum. =)

Agreed, tried and tested out by me too.

Magic can impress them. But also not for long.

Soon, they see more and more of your magic, they will gradually lost interest (for me, i'm absolute card player). But if you can do magic with lots of stuff, that might get them going....

Anyway, all the best to your magic practise.

Hi xpenix, noticed you haven't yet posted your intro. Pls do and read the rules.

;) Done so, saw before that kind of warning post.

Thanks man

Thanks for the advice! Now i have her handphone number thanks to u guys! :wub:

That's good news.

Hopefully, you will be getting more numbers as the times goes by....=)

Why don't you give us an account of HOW you got her number?

That must have been interesting, did you use magic or just your personality, but I think it should come from your personality, because if the girl only likes you for your magic, she might break up with you when she has seen enough.

Agreed, without personality...Magic = nothing.

Hear of someone mentioned before "Magic is only 10%, while Presentation takes up 90%"

No matter what we do, how we make people think and feel are more important. =)

Just my random opinion.

Well...show magic to her friends,good reviews then get her number for friends and i cant stop SMSing ready! I should be studying for PSLE... hope this thing ends soon. HAHAHAHA! :lol:

(PS.Coin rolls and muscle passes never fails me to get attention)

Oops! Didn't know there was a second page! Yes, i agree that almost 95% of me got her because i am kind of ... famous in my school for being funny. As embarrassing as this thing sounds, one young P2 boy saw me and ask me to sign his maths textbook! (I still cannot believe that!)

Haha, great to hear that. =)

Each person with his own style.

Hey!

I remember almost never having done magic to my gf.

However, the more you do magic, the more it becomes part of your personality and influences your thinking.

Magic will give you social skills. Social skills can give you confidence. Confidence will help you woo girls.

However, do not neglect other parts of your personality, like your physical fitness, grooming, body language, studies CCAs.

Ultimately, the test is whether you can get the girl WITHOUT the magic. But relax, this will take time.

Cheers
Csjoshi

Yea.

Magic boost my confidence, my speech, my presentation.

Now, I think i start to like to giving people misdirection even i'm just having chat with them. Lol!

Magic helped build my presentation and communication skills. It's cool that by doing magic actually plays a pretty big impact in our life. :D