Title: Lady Management
Description: it's difficult~~i cant
i_neveregret - March 17, 2005 04:35 PM (GMT)
if u are a guy, then u shud know wad i mean...
if the gal is too chio, then u can hardly do an eye contact..u urself get misdirected
if the gal asked u abt the secret"how u did tat", u didnt tell her and is like behaving very very ungentlemen
if the gal is chio and after u finshed the magic and when u try to walk away and she ask u abt the secret...and wad to do next?!
can smbody help me~~!!
Daryl - March 17, 2005 04:42 PM (GMT)
You're supposed to make the girl go weak my boy.. wats with you? :D
Make her want to see more! Don't be pathetic and give away secrets just cos shes good looking man. Stand your ground!
Also, nothing intrigues like a man of mystery ;)
BuaYa - March 17, 2005 04:53 PM (GMT)
Well. Do this routine.
Card to pocket - gets her to put her hand into your pocket.
Triumph - the patter about talking to a lovely lady gives you reasons to stare at her.
Mind reading effect - A simple 4ce will allow u to hold her hand.
ACR - End your routine and get her number. Tell her you'll call. Call exactly 24 hours later. Dun seem desperate.
Listen to me and you'll do well. Shuffle between Triumph and Card to Pocket depending on the girl.
GordonLi - March 17, 2005 05:05 PM (GMT)
if u cannot control urself not giving away the secrets (which i fear u did), EITHER dont perform or dont do magic at all.
if u care enough and is passionate abt magic, that trivial issue shud not stand in the way.
illusionist - March 17, 2005 05:10 PM (GMT)
Lol.. Hmmm.. My advice.. When she ask about the serect just say hmm... That since you say it a serect how can I tell you lol~ But there is a serect that I can tell you is that you are really chio aka pretty lol... :D
yujie - March 17, 2005 05:11 PM (GMT)
wow weesiang...c u so honest guy....actually u got so many demons inside u...hahaha ^_^
Clement - March 17, 2005 05:16 PM (GMT)
I agree with Gordie...Dun perform if you think you cannot keep the secrets ^_^
ziLin - March 17, 2005 05:31 PM (GMT)
don't believe buaYa..
anyway, if the girl wants to know the secret, she's not worth your time. because she's using you! why would you want her to use you?!
but.. don't hit him down so fast, it's only natural for attraction to happen. it's the animal world afterall. but i think.. stand firm on your ground, you're not supposed to reveal anyway.
do not NOT perform magic just cause the girl is chio. that's a pretty sad case. you may lose many opportunities..
oh, and DO NOT tell her that the secret is that she's chio/pretty. that'll make her UNinterested in your magic, much less you. haha.
*watch hitch! (movie)
but yeah, don't perform if you think you'll go weak/expose/reveal.
kryptikalism - March 17, 2005 05:38 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (gordie @ Mar 18 2005, 01:05 AM) |
if u cannot control urself not giving away the secrets (which i fear u did), EITHER dont perform or dont do magic at all.
if u care enough and is passionate abt magic, that trivial issue shud not stand in the way. |
yes.
low crime does NOT mean no crime.
Daryl - March 17, 2005 05:47 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (ziLin @ Mar 18 2005, 01:31 AM) |
oh, and DO NOT tell her that the secret is that she's chio/pretty. that'll make her UNinterested in your magic, much less you. haha.
*watch hitch! (movie)
but yeah, don't perform if you think you'll go weak/expose/reveal. |
Bravo. Well said. And hitch was AWESOME MAN!
Going weak is kinda pathetic man.. which is why so many girls can walk over so many Singaporean guys. Cos they're weak. Beauty turns them to mush. WTF guys?!
I was gonna type this just now, but i retracted, seeing that lines that are not spontaneous dont mean anything(meaning dont try this to get laid.. despos), but hell, this is what i thought when i first read the post.
"Try to catch me this time.. you" and show another trick.
"When you find out the secret, gimme a call and i'll tell you if you're right ;) " then walk away. you of course, dont :D
make her want (to see) more of you! you're the magician! the spotlight's on you, not the babe. Confidence is key.
im not singling you out i_neveregret, this is just in general, to everyone. Once again, I really do not support the notion of using magic to get girls. thats pathetic with a capital P-A-T-H-E-T-I-C.
PEACE.
Aloy - March 17, 2005 05:48 PM (GMT)
:ph43r: This is something that i feel very seriously and strongly about, and I STRONGLY STRONGLY advise everyone to follow the method that I am about to recommend :ph43r: It is very VERY important that we handle such a delicate situation with care. -_-
I will be handing out to everyone a few of my name cards each.
Next time you perform for a chio girl and she asks you how it's done.....
GIVE HER MY NAMECARD AND WALK AWAY. :mellow:
In fact, even if she is completely uninterested in your magic and completely not interested in finding out how it's done, but she is chio....
GIVE HER MY NAMECARD. :mellow:
In fact, even if you didn't perform any trick for her and you completely don't know her, and she is chio....
GIVE HER MY NAMECARD. :mellow:
-_- I know. It's a big sacrifice on my part. But SOMEONE has to do it. For the sake of magic, I am willing.....to be introduced to a lot of chio girls. For the sake of magic. Of course. -_-
Don't cry for me, just shed a tear when you think of me....... :ph43r:
MingWei - March 17, 2005 06:05 PM (GMT)
This coming from Daryl who had a so-so girl crawling all over him to try and find the coin that he vanished from the back of her hand...
But then again he wasn't interested in her, cause I lied about the so-so bit hahaha...
But seriously speaking, I know of several magicians who carry the 2 of Hearts in their wallet with their phone number on it in the event of meeting a chio girl. And let's all come clean. We'd use anything to get into a hot girl's pants! One trick will lead to another, till we get to show her the magic of our expanding 6 inch magic wands!
:)
Alexander - March 18, 2005 01:56 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (MingWei @ Mar 18 2005, 02:05 AM) |
| But seriously speaking, I know of several magicians who carry the 2 of Hearts in their wallet with their phone number on it in the event of meeting a chio girl. |
Geez, whats with 2 of hearts man? It seems like, whenever i ask whichever girl, 'now tell me, what is your favourite card' they'd all say 2of hearts. Why?
anyway, i totally agree. If she really asks how is it done, and you tell her, that only shows shes interested in the method, not you.
Well, if you really want to know someone thru magic, just do one or two effects, and STOP, then chat alittle. If you do too much magic, she'll be more interested in the magic, than.. yes, you the magician.
i_neveregret - March 18, 2005 04:15 PM (GMT)
i never--expose a secrect~~last time i perform to my fren's cousin i just say that i dun know how it was done~i say it was magic~~ and i thought tat's a very lame excuse...that's my first and onli time perform to a female beside my mother.. :P
anyway thanks for ur advices~~and a special thanks to aloy for his sacrifice :D
tham - March 19, 2005 03:50 PM (GMT)
Derren Brown has a KILLER routine, that will (i quote kenneth) make girls MELT. i'll try to find out the name of the routine, or get kenneth to post it. his presentation style is definitely unique to him, and that surely works in his favour in lady (or for that matter, ANYONE on earth) management.
btw, aloy, do you give her your SMC namecard, or which one?
i find that females who know me are all hecklers. except for a chosen few younger than me, so i just move on to a really good effect before finishing up the performance. whereas for males, those who know me generally seem to like whatever i show them. i've yet to perform for total strangers/acquaintances.. so i cannot really comment here.
kryptikalism - March 19, 2005 11:41 PM (GMT)
that derren brown's routine you're talking about should be Zamiel's Rose, from the Devil's Picturebook.
william_wwong - March 20, 2005 02:33 PM (GMT)
For those who are not familiar with the Zamiel’s Rose, this is how the effect goes:
The performer tells a story of how he got started in magic when he was 6, by producing a rose for a girl he liked, but messed the effect up, cutting himself and sending rose petals all over the floor. A card is selected and returned to the deck. The deck vanishes, then one card appears. A series of cards are then produced, ending with the selected card being revealed. For the finish, the selected card disintegrates into rose petals.
HarapanOng - May 15, 2005 06:47 AM (GMT)
It is hard for me to exprience perofrming to a gal, being in a boy's school.
There are only a few instances in which I got to perform to girls, one being at a class gathering which i did one simple snap change and they all freaked. Another recent one being this group of girls coming up to me (me being the magicman sure spreads wide and far) and asking me if uri geller was truly psychic.
I did liquid metal on them and one of them almost CRIED in shock. (serious. her eyes were WET)
but anyway, guess i cant contribute much here, with the little experience. But my advice is that when you do magic for a chio bu, dun suddenly suggest you like her... try performing something GOOD for her, something for her to remember you by.
And if she asks HOW DID YOU DO THAT? dun say something like "you are too pretty, guess magic happened" just shrug and probably smile. show your friendliness. tahts how i deal with the girls that i get to perform to.
darkmagician - May 25, 2005 12:43 PM (GMT)
r u serious panpanpan?
her eyes were wet?!?
anyway just be normal, do whatever, and impress them then if they ask you about the secret maybe u can still go on by doing maybe one or two more tricks to impress the chio bu...
but hey i am also from an all boys school so i guess i can't really be sure but i do perform for girls now and then... but i guess maybe i might never know, maybe for a few more years that is...
zhuanan - May 28, 2005 12:57 AM (GMT)
If the girl asks me to do again, I will usually say:
a) It just happened. I don't know how it happend as well...or
B) I would like to tell you, but even I myself would like to know more about it...
hehe.... :rolleyes: